CAN somebody please tell me how on earth there is an 'easy and lazy lifestyle choice' in being unemployed?  And how on earth do unemployed people 'get everything paid for'?

 I worked all my life from the age of 15 up until I was widowed at 47 and had a disabled child to care for, when widowed parents benefit was a great help for me and my son.  Now that he is older and trying to be as independent as he can (on ESA of £47 a week, after 4 years of College), I am having to scrape by on £38 a week Job Seekers Allowance, which includes £8.19 a week for my mortgage (that's nothing but laughable!), with £31 added for my health problems. 

My job centre is 30 miles away which involves what feels like huge expenses when I only get a pittance.

 I am applying for up to 30 jobs every week, but have only had 4 (unsuccessful) interviews since June.

 Can somebody who is more 'in the know'please tell me what I am missing? 

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