Opening your home to a group of people living with dementia might not be something many people picture themselves doing. But for Callington resident Wendy, it has become one of the most rewarding parts of her week.
Now, The Filo Project, an award-winning not-for-profit organisation, is encouraging more people in the Tavistock area to consider becoming hosts, as demand for its service continues to grow.
The Filo Project provides small-group day care for people living with early to moderate dementia. Guests are collected from their homes, spend the day in a paid, trained host's home enjoying companionship, activities and a cooked lunch, before being driven safely home again. Groups are kept small, with usually no more than four people, helping to create a relaxed, family atmosphere.
Wendy, who started hosting in June, says the role allows her to use her creativity while making a genuine difference to people's lives. She believes people often overestimate what makes a good host. "You don't have to be perfect or have loads of experience," she says. "Just be yourself, be approachable and bring a positive attitude."
One concern sometimes raised by potential hosts is whether their home is suitable. Wendy understands that worry because she had it herself.
"I was worried at first that my home would be too small for the group, but actually it's nice for people sitting together on the sofas. It feels cosy and connected."
That homely environment is one of the reasons The Filo Project works so well. A typical day starts with tea, biscuits and conversation before moving on to activities designed to spark memories and encourage friendships. During one recent session, guests shared childhood stories, sang along to music and enjoyed a lively game of Snakes and Ladders. The home setting creates an atmosphere that feels less like a formal care service and more like a get-together with friends.
"My favourite part of being a host is the people I get to meet and the connections I make. I enjoy creating a welcoming environment where everyone feels comfortable being themselves, getting involved and having a good time."
Providing meaningful social connections and preventing isolation are central aims of The Filo Project's approach but the benefits extend far beyond the guests themselves. Families and carers also gain valuable respite, knowing their loved one is spending the day in a safe and supportive environment.
Potential hosts might worry that they don't have professional care experience or qualifications. Wendy is keen to reassure them, stressing that the most important qualities a host needs are much simpler.
"Being friendly, approachable, caring and confident meeting new people is important. Good communication and organisation help too, but most importantly you need a positive attitude, a sense of humour and to genuinely enjoy connecting with people."
Hosts are well-supported and paid, not volunteers. The Filo Project provides thorough training, ongoing guidance, including practical support and holiday cover when hosts take holidays.
With The Filo Project actively recruiting new hosts in the Tavistock area, Wendy hopes others will consider taking on the role.
"If you enjoy meeting people and making a difference, I'd definitely encourage you to go for it. It's a great opportunity to meet new people, build your confidence and be part of some really memorable experiences."
For potential hosts, creating a warm welcome in their home could become one of the most rewarding things they ever do, and for local people living with dementia, that warm welcome will make a big difference.
To find out more about becoming a host with The Filo Project, check out the website at: www.thefiloproject.co.uk/join.






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